Hello and welcome.

This appearance could have several causes, but further speculation is unnecessary, since the culprit is named in the OP:
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...found this in a tub full of match books...
Yes, being sealed up in a confined space with a large amount of elemental sulfur (found in typical match-heads) will turn a silver coin black.
If you'd like proof, simply get yourself a nice shiny silver coin, and seal it up in an airtight box with a bunch of matchbooks. Fresh matchbooks would be more potent, rather than your late aunt's decades-old matchbooks that have probably already lost a lot of their sulfur. A year or so should give an adequate demonstration.
As for cleaning, it would be safe to say that if any dealer owned this coin, they would dip it in silver dip before selling it. Hopefully they would do the dipping in a well-ventilated place; this degree of blackness on a large coin like a dollar would emit quite a lot of hydrogen sulfide gas when dipped.
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