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Valued Member
United States
156 Posts |
I was divorced two years ago and have no children. Happiest I've been in a long time, actually. I also have no one to share my hobby with except those in my local coin club or here on these forums.
I'm ok with that. I think its ok to have something that is strictly yours that no one else shares an interest in.
You sound like a fairly social guy, which I am not so much, but the fact that one else shares you interest in no reason to take a break from it. If you're tired, thats one thing, but don't worry about feeling like the odd man out.
Sometimes that's not such a bad position to be in.
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Moderator
 United States
189340 Posts |
This community is the best outlet for sharing and not feeling alone.  We all need a break sometime. Feel free to take one and come back here feeling a new sense of purpose.  But if you want to keep at it, we will support your with that as well. 
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Rest in Peace
United States
4078 Posts |
Looking at your bio, you joined 2/4/13. You are searching half dollars, you just bought a 2012 Silver Panda and you have kids. Wow! Not sure what kind of income you have but, this is quite an accomplishment. Family comes first especially with kids. Why not take a hiatus from searching. As the other family members said, it is a, "Coin Community Family". Keep us posted.
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Valued Member
United States
127 Posts |
I can relate to this thread. My wife and kids, with the exception of my son, have no interest in my hobby. My wife does smile when she sees how excited I get over some coins. My five year old son thinks it's pretty cool and "collects" coins too but I assume he'll loose interest. I recently bought him the Zombucks copper bullion collection. He'll be excited when they come in. I have found that I get a lot of enjoyment reading others posts and posting on this forum as my coin outlet. That's why I love this place!
Edited by Metzger22 05/21/2015 4:39 pm
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Pillar of the Community
United States
3486 Posts |
No one takes your rant personally, ST, and many of us long time collectors have taken breaks over the years. Sometimes necessitated by life and other times just to 'get away for a bit!' Listen to your family (CCF!) and feel no guilt nor failure. Your 'gut' is telling you to take a break, and your 'heart' will tell you when to get excited again.
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Pillar of the Community
 United States
589 Posts |
Thanks all for the encouraging words and wisdom. I think I do need a break and will be taking this break now. But I will be on the forum to continue to read the happenings of my fellow coin collectors and stackers.
Thanks again everyone. ST
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Pillar of the Community
United States
2637 Posts |
Inexplicably, my wife and daughter are much more interested in the gold and silver jewelry I occasionally pickup at "spotty" prices.
My mother takes an interest in what coins I am getting -- I told her of my new interest in late Roman bronzes, and she asked me to give her something for her birthday/Christmas, etc. I found a nice, well-packaged set of Constantine, Constans, and Constantine II that will be headed her way next month.
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Pillar of the Community
United States
8518 Posts |
I took a break from Lincoln's . Just needed a break from box after box. It's cool finding stuff though .
Oregon coin geek.....*** GO BEAVS ! ! ! ***
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New Member
United States
20 Posts |
I got the same feeling a few time, One of the joys of collecting is being able to share your collection with someone else that has the same joy in it you do. Thats a great part of what keeps me motivated and energized to keep the search for rare pieces! ive taken a break from US currency and coins myself a few times and started collecting international as well and I find great joy in that too. So maybe take a break or join a local coin club or group that you can show off too ;) haha
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Valued Member
United States
85 Posts |
I was in the same boat as you. Except it was with sport cards. I collected from 1987 until the early 90's. Became a teen and moved onto other things. Came back to the hobby in 1999 after collecting Star Wars figures which was taking up too much room. Liked to collect, but never found anything that was a perfect fit. No one to share my accomplishments with sometimes took the fun out of it. I switched collecting goals quite a few times and it still was never enough.
That is until I started collecting a certain card. A Ripken error that I could never afford as a kid. Went after all 6 versions the book listed. Then found 7, 8 etc until 21 was the new number (highly debated by some). Helped make a website about it, wrote a little book, was mentioned in a CNBC article and helped numerous collectors with this newly found info. Sure I helped raise the price on previously unknown errors, but it also helped with it's popularity and shed light on unknown info for about 20 years. I was respected in the community online and proud of what I had accomplished. My family, they were happy for me but I got the same looks as you when I would show them a new version, new article I found or any other new discovery. On the other hand, every time my boys show me what they created on minecraft I don't get as excited as they would like to see either.
Sadly I had to sell my collection for financial reasons and took a huge loss financially, but it was the most fun I've ever had collecting and loved it.
I guess my point is like others have mentioned, try to connect to others locally that have the same interests as you. Or what worked for me, instead of collecting what most do, find a niche. I wish you the best of luck.
Happy Hunting, Donovan
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Bedrock of the Community
United States
20753 Posts |
Here is a dumb suggestion. Place articles in newspapers, also post on the internet, that you have a fortune in coins just laying around in your house.  Within no time you will find you have lots and lots of visitors day and night. 
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Pillar of the Community
United States
4333 Posts |
Quote: Here is a dumb suggestion. Place articles in newspapers, also post on the internet, that you have a fortune in coins just laying around in your house. Within no time you will find you have lots and lots of visitors day and night. You nailed it Carl. I keep my mouth closed regarding my habits and hobby. I learned long ago that some people have great memory and what might have been mentioned or shown in casual conversation to co-workers, strangers or even family members may some day come back to haunt.
When I listen to LED ZEPPELIN...so do my neighbors... Roll hunting since '77 Dirt fishing since '72
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Pillar of the Community
United States
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Quote: as it can become tedious looking at coin after coin after coin. For some people maybe. I actually do enjoy looking at coins online for hours per day, I read a daily blog every morning and visit this website reading a lot of new threads and posting replies to a few. All this between going to rehab once a week and my daily exercises. I am recently disabled. A meningioma which attached itself to the left side of the motor control area of the brain affected my entire right side has me sidelined until through rehab and exercises I can hopefully get my arm and leg to respond to the signals from my brain again. This photo is not for the squeamish. http://i1085.photobucket.com/albums...wcjzyzdu.jpgQuote: As long as you enjoy the hobby, that's all that matters  I live with a person who says "you got a package today," knows it is a coin or something related and has absolutely no interest of what it is. If I show her the coin or whatever it's like that's nice, did you have to interrupt what I was doing to show it to me.
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Pillar of the Community
United States
2130 Posts |
I wish I could get the urge to take a small break! I know my checking account would appreciate it!
I know everybody has their own way of collecting. CRH is not my way and that would certainly wear me down after a while.
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Pillar of the Community
Canada
4911 Posts |
gyrene7483,  I can only imagine the struggles you and your loved ones have been put through. my best wishes to you as well as prayers of a speedy recovery. to go through what you are shows how brave, strong and persevering you are.
Feel free to call me Will.
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