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Bedrock of the Community
United States
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I give mine bags of M&M's! They giggle and thank me.....and they give me excellent service everytime I come in too. It's amazing how nice they are too me even though I only treat them now and then to the M&M's. IT WORKS!
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Pillar of the Community
United States
1042 Posts |
Quote: I'm looking for other ideas of perishable gifts, if you got any. I've done the donut, pizza, and candy thing too. They're all appreciated, but I've found that "homemade" works very well.  This past summer I've kept busy making homemade jams and jellies. A jar of jam, and a loaf of sliced, fresh-baked bread has found it's way into my local bank on more than one occasion. 
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Pillar of the Community
 United States
1547 Posts |
Quote:We have had this subject before. You dont give them any gifts...you just say thank you! They are only doing their jobs! Whats the big surprize?  Cutepenny, forgive my candor, but since when is the job of your bank to pimp for your hobby?  Listen, seriously, I know what you're saying, but I think if you think it over, you'll realize it's a little beyond that. For whatever reason (and, there are many, I'm sure), they're consenting to do you a personal favor. BadThad: Do you find they prefer the peanut variety, or straight-up? I could always do both, money's no object. Scotty11: I'll say this, you have an incisive understanding of the issue. I think thinking "homemade" is a great way of expressing personal thanks without looking like you're trying to, let me just call it, "compromise" them. Good one; I'd have never thought of it.  Not to leave anyone out, good ideas all around, gang, I really appreciate it. 
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Valued Member
United States
57 Posts |
Quote: I dont feel it is a safe thing to do if you are married. What in the world does being married have to do with tipping someone for a service rendered? That is one of the strangest things I have ever read. People here in Las Vegas tip not only dealers, but some in other fields daily. I doubt it makes their marriage any less safe!Quote: just my honest opinion Mine too!
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Pillar of the Community
United States
3283 Posts |
No silly jealously in my marriage. Actually I "flirt" with everyone I meet. Secretaries,checkout girls,Parking lot attendants etc. My wife knows I'm just a fun loving guy who likes people.
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New Member
United States
38 Posts |
I've got to agree, I don't see how a small "token" of appreciation such as candy could be suspicious...but then again, there are mostly older (yet still very nice) ladies that are tellers at my banks! Where are you guys going that have good looking young women? Haha...
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Valued Member
United States
364 Posts |
Well, let me just put it this way...if I give a small thank-you to "my" tellers in the form of a gift, I know my wife would have no problem, and if she was the jealous type she'd have real issues because some of the tellers are MALE.
Since we're being honest, let me just make one more point: These people make about $8-10 an hour if they are very lucky. I can't believe some of you would come in there week after week and not educate them about making a little on the side by keeping their eye on coins that come through their drawers. I know some of you go through boxes and dozens of rolls a week, adding all that extra work and potential debalancing to their plate. Why not help them out? The point made above about tipping a waiter is exactly right. Good personal service should be rewarded.
Of course I worked in college for a while as a drive-thru teller, so I'm biased. If just one of the collectors I'd dealt with had come off their ridiculous angle that I was some kind of "potential competition" and had educated me on what to watch for, it would have really helped me out. They didn't. We can do better than that.
Whatever good you do comes back to you anyway, by the grace of God.
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Pillar of the Community
United States
757 Posts |
so would I be correct in assuming that getting 1000 dollars in dimes and returning them the next day would be a bad way to make friends with tellers?
also...i'd like to get some of your opinions on this: do you think it'd be unwise to go to a teller and ask if they wouldn't mind trading dimes--a couple boxes for a couple unopened boxes?
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Pillar of the Community
United States
2424 Posts |
oblakavshtanax,
there was a thread a while back addressing the etiquette of roll hunting. one of the ones I remember vividly is never take the same coins back to the bank you got them from. Make sure you establish a 'dump' bank. Same branch is ok. In my experience, I've made more tellers happy by taking their coins than giving them back. From other stories I have heard from members on here, DO NOT go back to the same bank to dump..
and also to defend my other comment about my jealous wife, I KNOW. I want to give them something! In my special circumstance, this whole issue came about from ONE teller that had been saving me a TON of solid silver rolls. My wife got suspicious as to ' why would SHE save YOU these valuable items" totally missing the point that we had just made $200 bucks on $20 face../.i told me wife I am just being polite.. making conversation, etc.. anyway, I'm praying she gets over these insecurities.. had I lived a different lifestyle before I was married, things might be different. I just wanted to shed some light on a complete opposite side of what you guys go through when addressing the issues we have done here...
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Pillar of the Community
United States
757 Posts |
Quote: Make sure you establish a 'dump' bank. Same branch is ok. In my experience, I've made more tellers happy by taking their coins than giving them back. From other stories I have heard from members on here, DO NOT go back to the same bank to dump... yeah, I guess i;m more asking whether I need to go to an entirely different bank, or whether I would be fine just dumping at a different branch of the same bank...I'm only a member of bank of america. thanks for the response.
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Pillar of the Community
967 Posts |
Sometimes I take them a $25 restaurant gift card when the hold those new uncirculated boxes for me.
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Valued Member
United States
364 Posts |
I think the "no return rule" makes sense more and more as you go up in amounts. I only see tellers a once or twice a week, tops, and I only ever bring in about $100 in rolled coin at once. They have never had a problem with it and tell me I'm small fish compared to some of the guys they see.
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Valued Member
United States
364 Posts |
SDcoinguy, I hope I did not give you the wrong idea with my post. My intent was not to make you feel on the defensive. I appreciate your points. Thanks, dude.
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