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Bedrock of the Community
Australia
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I showed my coin collection to my then girlfriend AND my future Mother - in Law at the same time.
I had the entire collection actioned and got about $40,000 dollars in today's values for it, to help pay the deposit for our first house. Had a VERY happy marriage that lasted until my wife died.
Started a new collection not long after we married, my current collection is quite a bit more valuable than the first one.
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Bedrock of the Community
United States
20753 Posts |
I would think if your bringing up hobbies of any kind on a date, your just not full of information on other things. Why even bring up stuff like guns, knives, coins, archery, etc. Those are hobbies and I'm sure any girl also has hobbies that may or may not bore you. If she started to tell you about her bracelet collection, what would you say? If she started to tell you about her doll collection, what would you say. Unfortunately boys and girls are brought up differently and their hobbies too become either girlish or boyish. Would you sit her down and start explaining what you did to your car? Think most girls want to know about a timing chain in your car's engine? Not only the above but why tell the world you may have excessive valuables laying around the house? You really don't know who she knows, what they do, if wanted by the police either. Learn that with any valuables, keep it to yourself.
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Moderator
 United States
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My wife never knew I collected until after a year of dating..she was totally cool with it, especially when I showed her a few from our Colonial past.
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Pillar of the Community
Canada
3692 Posts |
It's probably a sure-fire way to remain "dateless".
That, and she could be crazy and steal all your coins.
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Bedrock of the Community
United States
20753 Posts |
And there is so many other subjects to discuss. Such as how a worm wiggles when putting a hook in it to use as bait fishing. Or which is the best toilet paper to use. What did you do with that stuff from your nose when you sneezed. Do you use a roll on or spray on deodorant? SEE. So why bother a date with info on coins?
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New Member
United States
8 Posts |
If someone cares about you, they shouldn't mind what your hobbie(s) are. (considering said hobby isn't criminal) 😀
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Pillar of the Community
United States
937 Posts |
I am not so sure about that Jimmy dime, if someone told me that they collected articles thrown to the crowd by certain dancers I am quite certain it would be a very long time until the next date. Nothing illegal about it but it is a good way to insure the devil will ice skate on the lake of fire before they buy me a diner again.
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Pillar of the Community
United States
1314 Posts |
Geez, you guys make it all sound like a trip to the dentist. Aside from the security issues it should be a fun discussion. If you know her age, tell her a fun fact about coins from that year. Or give her one from that year. Foreign coins are cheap and plentiful. Give her one that features something she likes - flowers or a cat. Maybe one that is from the land of her forefathers. And if you want to break the ice with a little foolish humor, try pointing out the menu specials with a 1943 wheatie, with the use of a magnet on the back side. If you can't say something fun and interesting about your favorite hobby, maybe you're not fun and interesting. I usually ask others about their hobbies and what they may collect. One girl told me she collected Barbie dolls. That relationship was never getting off the ground. Not because it was Barbies, but because she didn't know anything about them or care. She only cared about how many she had. And were I to give her another, she would just throw it in a box with the others, and then own 12. She didn't know when they were introduced, how many were made, what models were worth or how to tell condition. She collected dolls like a squirrel collects acorns. She might be a wonderful person, but I soon discovered we did not have much in common. Knowledge is a tool. It's up to you how you use it.
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New Member
United States
8 Posts |
You make a good point, Tryna. 😊
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Pillar of the Community
United States
595 Posts |
Well, truth be told, if your coin collection is worth a LOT of money and has a lot of gold, it might not be a bad idea to mention or even show it on your first date  Really though, she shouldn't like you only because you have a lot of valuables. I think we all understand that....
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Valued Member
United States
113 Posts |
It's been nearly 28 years since I last dated but when my date (now husband) mentioned he had some cool coins he collected, I didn't think yay or nay about it. Wasn't a deal breaker or sealer. Now, 28 years later, I am the one who collects more and talks about it way more. Hope I don't bore him. LOL
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Valued Member
United States
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