I found an obituary for a John W. Mays Jr. in a local PA paper with the names of his descendants, including one daughter who I don't seem to be able to find any info on. I intend to contact the paper next week and will keep everyone informed. BTW, this has become a bit of an obsession for me! I can't begin to express the tremendous admiration I hold for the men and women who served, and are now serving, to help protect us!