I'm with the seller on this I don't take private offers to buy once an item is listed on ebay. Neither the seller or Buyer have recourse if the deal goes bad. I get them all the time and yes it would save me ebay and PayPal fees but you are breaking ebay rules by doing so. When you place a Bid on an item ebay automatically bids for you just enough to win the item until your max bid is reached. So ebay is your proxy bidder.

























