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Bedrock of the Community
United States
14454 Posts |
I agree, there are always going to be some people like that no matter where you go, Just remember you are there to advance yourself not to be discouraged by others. Just remember those that are not taking advantage of what they are being offered here are the ones that are going to be looking to you for advice in future years. It takes allot of maturity to be able to have thick skin and not let this type of thing bother you and the way we have seen you grow and mature since you have joined this forum I know you have it in you if you can just push through it you will see the light on the other side and will be thankful you did. I have seen first hand what this opportunity you have in front of you can produce and would love to see you take this and run with it as far as you can carry it until it starts to carry you
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Pillar of the Community
United States
7123 Posts |
Hi Adam.
Sorry to hear that some of the other people who went to the seminar went without the seriousness needed to make the time there count.
I know this is not the case with you, and that no matter what else happens you will grow from the experience both as a collector and as a person"everyone finds out eventually that there are dummies in the world"
My best advice is to make the best of it, pull in everything you can from the experience and stick it out, you won't be sorry you did.
I can tell you right now if you're being picked on a little it's because those other kids see you as a challenge and that is because that is exactly what you are, a challenge to their maturity,their knowledge and their self esteem.
I for one am proud as can be of you, and I like the fact that others see you as superior.
take a bunch of pictures to share with us stuck at home old folks.
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Moderator
 United States
56855 Posts |
That was so sad to read. If that sort of thing is happening on ANA grounds, then it needs to be reported to an ANA official ASAP. Adam, do not let this get to you. Rise above it, take in as much positive and ignore the negative and you will benefit from the over-all experience. John1 
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Pillar of the Community
United States
609 Posts |
Man, don't let some snotty kids ruin your learning experience. I wish I was there, I'd show em how we roll in Alabama.
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Pillar of the Community
 United States
4846 Posts |
i guess ill try and stay for one more day, but if something like that happens again, I'm done.
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Moderator
 United States
23522 Posts |
Quote: but if something like that happens again, I'm done. Time for you to actually pay some attention to the writings of the great man you quote in your signature. Maimonides drew sharp distinction between evil that humans bring upon others, and evil they bring upon themselves. Your peers, in their immaturity, bring evil upon you because they haven't yet learned what "evil" actually is. You, by allowing their inconsequential actions to determine your behavior, bring evil upon yourself. Theirs are the sins of the unknowing innocent. You know better, and you're about to let stuff that just_doesn't_matter take you from a great goal in your life. Which is the greater evil, and who is the stronger, you or them?
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Pillar of the Community
 United States
4846 Posts |
me, but I cant just sit there and let them make me watch crap like that.
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Moderator
 United States
23522 Posts |
Then don't just sit there.
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Pillar of the Community
 United States
4846 Posts |
well, after that happened, I went up to my room, and they followed and laughed and put things under my door.
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Moderator
 United States
23522 Posts |
Well, that's certainly the End Of The World As We Know It. It's time for you to find someone with some sort of authority, and ask them if harassment is part of the ANA curriculum.
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Rest in Peace
United States
9104 Posts |
If you were a female, they'd be sitting in jail. Report them, and ignore them.
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Bedrock of the Community
United States
20753 Posts |
Quote:It's time for you to find someone with some sort of authority, and ask them if harassment is part of the ANA curriculum. I also think you should approach someone of authority and bring up this harassment. That place is supposed to be a real adult type of atmoshere and not a playground for immature idiots. You really should bring this up to someone since it ruins the entire situation for many others now and in the future. It's really difficult to understand why anyone would bring someone to a place like that with that type of attitude but there are people like that everywhere. Naturally it is difficult to avoid such morons so going to someone of authority just has to be done. For your sake and many others in the future. Please keep us posted as to any results. You may too want to mention to someone of authority that you belong to this forum and are reporting everything that goes on there. The wrong situation mentioned here could spread to many other places and have a real adverse type of advertisement of that place.
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Moderator
 United States
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Quote: You may too want to mention to someone of authority that you belong to this forum and are reporting everything that goes on there. The wrong situation mentioned here could spread to many other places and have a real adverse type of advertisement of that place. Nice. I reckon we could swing the ANA a little publicity. 
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Pillar of the Community
United States
560 Posts |
Hang tough Adam and don't let those kids ruin it for you!
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Pillar of the Community
United States
573 Posts |
Adam, I am so sorry to hear about your experience. You are an ambassador and model of the character and integrity of the people on this forum. People of integrity are able to rise above adversity like what you are facing, with a smile on our faces that hides the pain in our hearts. We continue to do the right thing, and because of that adversity we grow.
So grit your teeth, grin on the outside and learn all you can. Because some day you will eat their lunch.
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