So the seller responded to the issue by requesting return of the item. Sent me a nasty email saying no refund on shipping, returning is your only option. I didn't have a chance to respond to him when later that day he emails me again with an ultimatum. He said if I call
ebay and close the case that night so that he can get his money released he will give me a refund next week. He again threatens me by saying if I don't close it there will be no refund as PayPal cannot force it on him, it has to be done by his choice.
I decided to give him a chance so I called
ebay to close the case and after explaining everything to them the customer service rep was baffled as to why he just didn't refund the $25 because his funds would have been released immediately. This was the first I realized that 1. He requested the full return 2. He had the option to refund me the $25 he keeps promising and isn't doing. I'm not very familiar with how it all works but again knew he was dodging this again.
Their advice was to tell him to go online and switch his option to partial refund. Then his funds would release. I emailed him and told him the recommendation.
The next morning he changed the option to partial refund, and sent a message saying " I'm still sure I gave a refund. Please close this as soon as you get this message now that you have the extra $25"
I accepted and closed it out promptly for him and sent an email back to him with a few of my thoughts in it....