Do you know the seller or was it random on ebay? In many instances just knowing the reputation of the seller can make all the difference. That's not to say that even reputable dealers can't make mistakes. Also, on Forum there is a list of notorious sellers of fakes you might want to check out. If you care to ID the seller, some of us here may know the seller and can either vouch for them or against them.
I have a couple of coins in my collection that are listed as "Not In RIC", so this would not be out of the ordinary. I have a denarius of Marcus Aurelius I have attributed at RIC 67 (looks much like your coin BTW), and it is only 17mm and weighs in at 2.6g. So your coin may not be too small. Too bad you don't have scales, but can you measure it?
Here is my coin:

I have a couple of coins in my collection that are listed as "Not In RIC", so this would not be out of the ordinary. I have a denarius of Marcus Aurelius I have attributed at RIC 67 (looks much like your coin BTW), and it is only 17mm and weighs in at 2.6g. So your coin may not be too small. Too bad you don't have scales, but can you measure it?
Here is my coin:





















