If I were in your position, I would offer her a refund and minus
ebay & paypal costs...
I would then BLOCK her...
I registered with
ebay in June of 1997 and while I have over 1,500 transactions and a 100% feedback rating around 800 as customers can only record one feedback rating reguardless of how many purchases/transactions transpired..
My last sale on the Bay was April 2006 when my online accounts were hacked into & forced me to replace my credit cards and closed my business checking account... With the changes made since then, my feedback means nothing as they didnot have the star ratings back then...
My Opinion of feedback has changed since I started purchasing again, as I have found
ebay has been taken over by scammers with 100% perfect feedback that sell fake errors as genuine...
One of my pet-peeves is anyone taking advantage of the less informed, and when I encounter fake error listings I message the seller about the lack of truth in the description, I receive replies like "it's none of your business what I list" and " you don't know what your talking about"




I then report the item to
ebay & they do nothing about it...
If
ebay REALLY wanted to make it a "safe" place to buy & sell, they should post every question asked on that listing ~ in their listing... Not one question I asked under "I want to contact the seller" option has been added to that listing...
If posting questions was listed for all to see, I guarantee there would be less fraudulent listings... The seller always has the option to reply...
Feedback has nothing to do with how honest you are when scammers with 100% feedback are knowingly messing with people over, if anything, they are giving honest sellers a black eye...
Since purchasing items on
ebay for my grandchildren, I no longer care about my feedback and post Negative Feedback to those sellers with a 100% rating, and did just that... The seller was dumbfounded when I posted you screwed over the wrong buyer by listing multicolored items in 6 different colors & sending only two of the worst colors... The Seller replied he had the option to send whatever color he wanted... I then added; If you would have mentioned that in your item description, I would have moved on instead of getting ripped off, and BTW, I blocked you so I don't accidentally order from you again..
Any honest seller that gets unwanted negative feedback can always explain it in their listings... When I'm interested in a item I would like, and the feedback is 99 or 98% rating, I review their neg. feedback & most of the time it is over something stupid like "it took two weeks to receive my item" & "item broke after two days" on a $3.00 toy w/free shipping...
***Family friendly altered a word or two***while it was not cussing, it also was not child friendly (another reason I like this site)***