When I was a newbie in the glass insulator hobby, I had something happen that helped me understand all of this.
I got a call from someone who said they found my name online, and since I was local, he had a question about a glass insulator he had dug up that day with his bulldozer. Also, realize that at this time the most ever spent for an insulator was around 30K.
When the person told me what he had, I told him to sit down b/c he had a 25K piece of glass. I told him I could get him in touch with the people who were experts, wanted nothing for doing it, and that he could deal right with those people. He said that actually, since it was not on his property, he wanted to tell the landowner what he found out since the insulator technically belonged o the landowner (I was impressed with his integrity). He said he would get back with me in a few days.
I never heard from him again.
After quite awhile I talked with the one person in the insulator hobby who has handled consignment selling in the insulator hobby from the start. He has handled more rare pieces than anyone. And he has a great reputation.
He said the problem is that I handled the situation all wrong. He said that as much as you want to, it is normally a mistake to tell the owner the truth about something so valuable b/c one of two things happens.
1. It is hard to believe they have found something valuable so they think you have no idea and won't admit it.
2. They think that if it really is worth as much as you said, then in reality you are holding back in hopes of somehow getting a foot in the door in the opportunity. So they think they could get a lot more for it if they do their own leg work.
With insulators, this means (since the hobby is smaller and not as many people know about them as do coins), that the owner takes it to antique stores, etc., who probably know nothing about insulator values, and just "affirm" that the info you gave them is fantasy. After doing this so long and not being able to find a buyer, the piece actually can get thrown away or just sold at a garage sale as an inexpensive door stop.
So the hobby loses a good piece from honesty!
So don't be honest?! No way!
My friend also told me that he has learned to offer a good, and high price (but not something astounding like 25K) for the piece. If the owner sells, the owner is satisfied. My friend then puts the piece up in his auction catalog, sells it for actual value, gets the satisfaction knowing the insulator will not be in a landfill somewhere, and the GOES BACK to the owner and gives him the complete story and more money from the sale.
He said the original owners are always shocked at his honesty and the extra money, understands why it was handled this way, and he has made good friends and contacts this way.
I have never had this happen on the scale of that 25K piece since, but I have followed this philosophy with some decent priced pieces. I found everyone comes out really happy in the end.
I also have, without legitimately knowing it, bought pieces that I found were worth much more. I go back to the seller and let them know what happened and offer money to make up the difference. I found when this has happened, it is true I make some good, trusting friends who also will then keep an eye out for things they know I would like to add to my collection.
BTW - the expensive insulator the guy had was eventually sold to a guy for 2K. This guy sold it for a lot more and I know whose collection the piece is in today (also a good friend of mine). You have to understand that a piece like this in the insulator hobby would be something like finding a new 1804 dollar - so news gets around in the hobby.
Anyway, the point here is that someone eventually paid the full price. The sad thing about it is that I eventually tracked down who had owned it and found he had died of cancer. His son said his dad, from the start, had wanted the money he got to be donated to a children's home. Had I known how to handle this situation better, the children's home would have been given a lot more than 2,000.
Sorry for the book here, but this was an experience that helped me be able to know how to find a balance.
My main thought now is that a piece of glass (or a coin) is not worth losing a friend over. Friendships are much more rewarding and important. So when I deal, I want to make sure the other person is as happy as I am.
If its an auction - the situation changes. When I win, I am giving the best price out of a group of people who were interested. Whether or not I buy it, the piece will be be sold. This is where I personally see the seller should have done their research.
However, I still believe I would have trouble sleeping if I got thousands by selling something I got for cheap on
ebay if I did not contact the original owner show appreciation by letting them share in what they enabled me to get.
OK - OK - so I belong in Mayberry RFD!