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A Couple Of Coins In Honor Of My Father

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Apologies in advance if this is a bit of a rambling post...

My father passed away a couple of months ago at the age of 76. At the time, I didn't post anything about it here on the forums because I was having a difficult time dealing with it. He had been ill for a number of years, having survived a heart attack, colon and prostate cancer, near total kidney failure (he had half of one kidney still functioning), MRSA (which he got in the hospital after his heart attack), amputation of some toes due to gangrene, diabetes, general circulation issues and probably some other problems I didn't even know about. Despite all that, though, his death was actually unexpected. I mean, he spent most of his life going from one doctor to another, but he wasn't actually in the hospital and still managed to live a mostly normal life at home with his wife (my step-mother). In fact, I talked with him on the phone the night before he passed away and he seemed as "normal" as ever. We used to call him the Energizer Bunny because, regardless of the crisis, he always managed to just keep going and going and going...

In the end, we don't know exactly what he died of. He died while in the bathroom, having fallen and hit his head on the bathtub, but the coroner said there was almost no blood and he most likely was dead before he hit the bathtub. Could have been a heart attack, could have been a stroke, but whatever it was it was quick and (hopefully) painless. My step-mother found him and it's a relief to know that he didn't die from the fall and wasn't bleeding to death while she was in another part of the house.

Anyway...

My dad was a big stamp collector in his younger days and also did a little coin collecting. Most of his coin collecting, however, revolved around amassing silver half dollars (Kennedy, Franklin and Walking Liberty) and not much more than that. Over the last few years, as I started getting into coin collecting as an adult, I frequently talked about the coins I was collecting. And, a couple of months before he passed away, I had the chance to show him a bunch of my "best" coins (primarily proof versions of Seated Liberty coinage, my new proof Trade dollar, my proof Morgan dollar, etc.) He had never seen classic proofs before and really got a kick out of seeing them. He was also fascinated by the early coins in my collection, since he had never seen a Seated Liberty coin before. Although it doesn't really matter much in the grand scheme of things, I am just so glad that I had the chance to share those coins with him before he died.

Jump ahead a few months and I just found out that I will actually be getting a modest inheritance from his estate (split among myself and my three siblings). Not enough to retire on, and most of it is going straight into my 10-year-old son's college fund. After some thought, though, I decided to honor my father's memory and use some of the money to purchase a couple of coins that I'm sure he would have appreciated and that I may not have otherwise purchased for myself. I toyed with the idea of finally getting a proof Seated Liberty dollar or Twenty Cent Piece, but those are both on my list of coins I hope to buy someday and would probably eventually buy anyway. So, instead, I decided to go with an 1877 Draped Bust Dollar (which will be my very first pre-1800 coin) and a really nice proof Morgan dollar that would normally be way outside my budget (I already own a proof Morgan dollar, but not as high grade and not nearly as much eye appeal). Both were purchased at APMEX and are certified, which means I probably paid a bit too much, but I wanted to get them from some place reliable and didn't want to wait until I made it to a coin show next year. Together, the coins set me back around $6000.

I hope to have both coins in hand next week some time, but here are the pics from the seller. In addition, the proof Morgan dollar is certified by PCGS and has a TrueView image available, which I'll post here as well. If it's even half as nice in hand I'll have to keep wiping the drool off it.

All right, sorry for the lengthy story. Thank in advance for the condolences, but I really just wanted to take the opportunity to share these magnificent coins with you. They are beautiful in their own right, but knowing that I will be able to think about my dad every time I look a them just makes them even more special to me.

1799 Draped Bust Dollar:

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1903 Proof Morgan Dollar:

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 Posted 10/27/2015  10:23 am  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add BuckeyeCoinGuy to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
Sorry for your loss Barry.

That proof Morgan dollar is gorgeous.
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 Posted 10/27/2015  10:28 am  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add chequer to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
Those are special coins on their own, with the story they're priceless.

Really sorry for your loss.
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 Posted 10/27/2015  10:55 am  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add Debrajc to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
Yes Barry, my condolences on the sudden loss of your father but what a great way to honor him with those two special coins. They are both gorgeous!
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 Posted 10/27/2015  11:13 am  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add jbuck to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
Thank you for sharing your story (non apologies needed for length or content).

Such a wonderful tribute to your father.
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Barry, I'm sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. Your idea of having a coin in hand that will forever remind you of your Dad is a great idea and one I share with my Mom who passed away 11 years ago. Today is a special day for me as my Mom would have been 100 years old today and I put a brief memoriam in the local newspaper.

So, I was sitting at my computer with a 1921-D Morgan in hand thinking about my Mom and reading your story. What an amazing coincidence.

I haven't taken this coin out in a few years for some 'Mom time' but it always makes me feel good to hold it. It has no numismatic value as it is worn and has some edge notches because it probably was used in an inexpensive jewelry piece. When I was a young boy growing up in the 1950s there wasn't much to do as we lived in a remote area. My Mom would let me look at stuff she kept in a cedar chest. There were lots of family photos and souvenirs of trips and this coin. Today I consider it my most precious coin.

Enjoy your coins and enjoy good thoughts of your Dad every time you hold them.
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 Posted 10/27/2015  12:22 pm  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add john100 to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
The two really nice coins reminds me of Luther Vandros song Dance with my father, best thoughts
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 Posted 10/27/2015  12:44 pm  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add small_fortune_ to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
Beautiful coins that will make beautiful reminders. Sorry for your loss.
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 Posted 10/27/2015  12:51 pm  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add srs77 to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
Barry, so sorry for your loss. What a great way to honor your father. Those are two beautiful coins!
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Barry, I'm sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. Your idea of having a coin in hand that will forever remind you of your Dad is a great idea and one I share with my Mom who passed away 11 years ago. Today is a special day for me as my Mom would have been 100 years old today and I put a brief memoriam in the local newspaper.


Thank you for sharing that!
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 Posted 10/27/2015  1:08 pm  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add Connor to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
Barry...sorry for your loss. Your dad would be extremely proud as those are two amazing coins.
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Barry, sorry for your loss, he sounds like he was quite the fighter. Like you, my father is responsible for my passion of coin collecting. He and I live several hours apart, so I don't get to see him as often as I like. I think your father is looking down on you, proudly and admiring your new additions to your collection, honoring him.
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Depending on his birthdate, he would have been born in 1938 or 1939..
I would think a Proof Set from his birth year, along with his photo would honor him...

My Dad died in 1975 at age 59 & my Mom in 1984 at age 58, I don't think they made proof sets in 1916 & 1925...
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Heh. That sounds like the perfect gift I should have given him when he was still alive...
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In my Curio Cabinet I have a high grade 1925 Peace dollar with a 1926 photoo of my mom....
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Beautiful story thanks for sharing!

Sweet coins too I love the eye appeal on the Morgan.
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