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Valued Member
Australia
491 Posts |
To let thing ride so you force ebay & or pay pal to take control and make all decisions is so much not the way to go. I got a neg removed only because my history said I deal with stuff as a seller when it happens very quickly. If I am not sure I talk to ebay & pay pal by email as a seller and by phone as a buyer. I have got the best results doing things this way. ebay & pay pal have never had to force me to pay anything. As a seller the buyer is always right. It is an old saying that is a very good one.
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Pillar of the Community
 United States
7375 Posts |
You are right. If you notice in my previous post, I chose to refund the patient buyer. If the seller doesn't resolve the case before it escalates, it goes as a strike against them, and I was tired of dealing with it. Doesn't matter how right you are. Now, today I just received word from my poster that a miracle has occurred, and the package has been located and is out for delivery today.  Well, I guess it's good news. Hopefully buyer will do the right thing. Not sure if I should get out ahead of it, and contact the buyer, or just give them a chance to contact me. My gut says chill, and give them a chance.
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Pillar of the Community
United States
2189 Posts |
I had that happen before, after I had refunded the buyer. what I did was contact the buyer and tell them I would reimburse them for the postage to send back to me if they still did not want the coin/coins, and thanked them for their time. They paid right after they received them. It's up to you but I would let them know that, you know, the coins are coming. 
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Pillar of the Community
 United States
7375 Posts |
Good suggestion, will do.
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Pillar of the Community
United States
2189 Posts |
Keep us up to date, I am interested in how this all ends.
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Pillar of the Community
 United States
7375 Posts |
Guy said he got the coin, yahoo! Wanted to know if he could send me a check. I said no problem........... .....nothing is simple 
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Valued Member
Australia
491 Posts |
Way To Go! 
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Pillar of the Community
United States
7390 Posts |
And now you don't have to pay the fees... Silver lining for the trouble 
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Pillar of the Community
United States
2189 Posts |
yes, a Win/Win situation.
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Pillar of the Community
United Kingdom
1324 Posts |
...providing the buyer doesn't claim the PO lost the cheque!
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Pillar of the Community
 United States
7375 Posts |
Quote: And now you don't have to pay the fees... Silver lining for the trouble Yes, that was interesting, because I called ebay, and asked them how to collect, since the package was delivered, and they suggested paypal invoice, etc. So I guess ebay washes their hands of it once the case was closed.
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Pillar of the Community
 United States
7375 Posts |
The check came today and it immediately went into the bank. The bank that only charges $10 for a bounced check, not the one that charges $32 
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Pillar of the Community
 United States
7375 Posts |
Well, it's been 2 weeks, and no bad news from the bank, so I'm assuming it cleared.  It would be nice if all buyers had the same patience, integrity, and class as this one. Tie this one up and put a bow on it, after 2 months it's finally over.
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Valued Member
Belgium
464 Posts |
nice to know things worked out for both of you :)
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