Yet another reason why it is good to live in Washington State. Here, probate is optional and not required. In a few cases, probate is desirable. In most cases, it isn't. Fortunately, even when chosen, it is a streamlined process that does not take a huge amount of time or money.
When my wife's Mom passed in 2009, we opted not to probate her Will. We did have to file her Will with the local superior court but that was all. We had 2 certified copies of the Will made and several certified copies of the death certificate made so that we could complete all the business of transferring Mom's assets into my wife's name. It helped a lot that my wife was the only heir, was listed on all accounts, and was also the executrix. The bills and taxes got paid, there were no other creditors, and no real estate was involved. It all worked out very well, in financial terms anyway.
I'm well aware that this is not the case in most jurisdictions and that probate can be a right royal pain in the neck in most places. In those places, I agree that it is best avoided, if at all possible.