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What If Your Spouse Was Passionate About Collecting As You?

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 Posted 02/25/2012  08:48 am  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add just carl to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
I have no one in my family at all that is interested in coins. Maybe for spending but not for collecting. Now with guns, a different story. My wife has her guns and I have mine and it's don't touch my guns or else situation.
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 Posted 02/27/2012  1:37 pm  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add jbuck to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
While I am happy that my wife appreciates my interest in coin collecting, I am glad she is not involved in it with me. We share plenty of other activities. If we did not, then I could understand it if I had the desire to have her share this hobby with me. Fortunately, she has her own hobbies. We have to be able to do some things with our own time.

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 Posted 02/27/2012  1:53 pm  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add ContraJame to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
Even the interests we share have variation. I know for a fact she'd collect mint proof sets while I focus on the classics. I'll let her stick to collecting clothing, shoes, and purses.
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 Posted 02/27/2012  2:26 pm  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add timsumrall to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
My wife has taken up collecting Rossies. I doubt she will ever have the passion for coins as I do but I think it's kind of cool that she's got at least a mild case of the bug. She finished putting in what she had Friday night and Saturday morning it was all "Look, look, look, and I checked a web for errors and I didn't know about West Point and did you know about these low mintages, and and and ... all I could do was smile.

I only care for Lincolns so no conflict really or rather no conflict until she starts buying MS Rossies for page one of her Whitman album.


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 Posted 02/27/2012  3:06 pm  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add Conder101 to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
If the spouse has the same interests, and the collection is "ours" it may not be too bad and would probably be rather nice. But if they have the same driving interest and they are interested in something you aren't so you each have your own collection it could get ugly over dividing up the collecting budget. Separate collecting budgets would probably be a good idea in a case like that.
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 Posted 02/27/2012  3:47 pm  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add upstate to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply

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We'd be broke, she keeps me grounded
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 Posted 02/27/2012  3:58 pm  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add SHAFTA9a to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply

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He is!





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 Posted 02/27/2012  5:39 pm  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add barryg to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply

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We'd be broke, she keeps me grounded

Ditto, that!

The only reason I own a house (as opposed to renting) and have my son's college tuition saved up 10 years early is because my wife doesn't collect coins (or anything else) and gives me grief whenever I want to spend something....
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 Posted 02/27/2012  5:44 pm  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add kensho52 to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
I'm envious of you who can share your hobby. My wife is wonderful about letting me have my coins but she has virtually no interest in coins at all (takes too many to buy anything LOL).
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 Posted 02/27/2012  6:06 pm  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add fistfulladirt to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
Like hog heaven! Coins bore her, but how 'bout this: she brings home solid silver rolls of halves, rolls of steel wheats, War Nickels, silver quarters, mercs, rosies, and so on, and so on, and...oh...don't hate her cause she's beautiful...
When I listen to LED ZEPPELIN...so do my neighbors...
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 Posted 02/27/2012  6:17 pm  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add CPC24 to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
I collected as a kid, but stopped long before I was married. My dad passed away a couple years ago, and I got our old family collection. I started collecting again, out of nowhere.

My wife had no idea I was a collector. However, she doesn't mind me collecting. Roll hunting still confused her, though. She couldn't believe that there's actually that much silver out there. Also, she thinks I'm the only one who hunts. I wish!

I recently met a woman at work who collects, too. At first, my wife was maybe a bit jealous. However, she knows we're just good collecting friends...
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 Posted 02/27/2012  9:43 pm  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add Markseven to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
I am fortunate

My wife collects also; she isn't as passionate as I am, but does get excited about the occasional coin. She is more into commemoratives than I am and isn't quite as awed I am by the sense of history in coin collecting, but our main focuses are old US coins.

We have separate bank accounts and each have our own responsibilities regarding paying bills. As long as we meet our bills, then there is no hassle. There never has been, to date.
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 Posted 02/27/2012  10:57 pm  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add VetStudent to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
my wife is starting to love coins more and more.....heck she did take off on the day the 25th anniversary sets came out (and she got through within the first 20 minutes!)!!
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 Posted 02/28/2012  05:14 am  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add Litotes to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
Sharing my interests is not something I consider very important in finding a spouse. I could live with any category of collector/non-collector, if I was lucky enough to find someone. Odds are I won't.
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 Posted 02/28/2012  11:02 am  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add jbuck to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply

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Sharing my interests is not something I consider very important in finding a spouse. I could live with any category of collector/non-collector, if I was lucky enough to find someone
I can appreciate an open-minded attitude.

I think it is important to realize that in this group, our spouses are as varied as the different ways we collect our coins.
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