Brian34Jersey Kudos I agree with you wholeheartedly!! Selling is a business type endeavour even for a hobbyist! Life is too short to be fuming about some our person mistake. Cancel the transaction bless the person for communicating his intention. At least the buyer communicated and didn't leave you wondering whether or not he wanted. There are buyers that win auctions and never bother paying or sending a message.
Too many sellers take it as a personal Afront if someone asks for a cancel. How many have as a consumer taken something back to a store, because we change our mind or it wasn't what we expected.
Much better to cancel & get fees back! Than have to do a return & refund while earning a defect. Starting today if a refund is done on a case Paypal keeps their fees. I feel this is criminal !!
Why should Paypal not return fees on a refund? It's another Donahoe cash grab. John real is a Hoe in my opinion!