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 Posted 12/22/2014  4:38 pm Show Profile   Bookmark this topic Add Tobit to your friends list Get a Link to this Message Number of Subscribers
Hi folks, I'm not a collector but trying to help educate myself in ways to make my dad understand he's going about collecting in the wrong way.

He keeps buying coins from places like Danbury Mint, National Collectors Mint, and Littleton Coin Co. to the tune of thousands of dollars/year which he really can't afford. I try to tell him these places sell coins at a premium price but he's a stubborn goat and always throws back the "I'm doing this for your future" attitude. However, he has convinced my mother that, because they come in these fancy, but cheap, wooden display cases, these weird sets they come up with will add significant value. A new set arrived today from Danbury Mint with two Barber dimes to start the set with. Some of the other coins in this "set" don't seem to have a significance related to the Barber dime at all. Last month, he spent $3800 on a set of 25 Morgan silver dollars from NC Mint.

The only saving grace is, he's buying actual coins and not fake coins from these people. If he wants to buy the occasional Morgan from them, so be it but these sets he has accumulated with missing coins they never fulfilled is frustrating. Lastly, he has little income to be spending this way and my mother ends up paying in the end.

I'd just like to see him make wiser investments and looking for ideas on how to convince him to stop doing business with these places with maybe some better resources to buy from again.

Thanks
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 Posted 12/22/2014  4:51 pm  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add matttheriley to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
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That is a tough one. I wonder if you took a bigger interest in coins if he might listen to your advice, once he sees that you are not criticizing him, but helping him. Since it is for 'your future'. I think just responding with patience and love will be the best route. You catch more flies with honey than vinegar as they say...

Anyway, I'll be interested in seeing what the others have to say.

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 Posted 12/22/2014  4:57 pm  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add Joe2007 to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
to CCF. Sorry about your situation. It is a very delicate one that is going to be difficult to resolve without hurting his feelings. You might want to post this question in the Main Coin Forum so that it will be seen by more members. Main Coin Forum: http://www.coincommunity.com/forum/...FORUM_ID=127
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I think you're going to have to sit with him and "Organize" his collection. Get out your laptop and look each coin up. Make notes about the amount minted, etc. Then go to ebay and look for the same coin -- advanced search + sold -- to get a real idea of their value.

Or, quicker but less accurate, go to Numismedia Fair Market Value.

Either way, you will need to learn to determine the grade of the coin. You can post pics of the coins here and get honest, expert opinions on the grade of each coin.

Sorry you have to deal with this problem. If there's no changing his mind, you may have to consider taking over his credit cards so as to protect your mother. He's apt to become angry or embarrassed, but just be helpful and suggest that while he didn't get the Best price before, he will next time.

Good luck. I wish you well.
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 Posted 12/22/2014  5:03 pm  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add Tobit to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
Thanks Matt, it's a good idea but not likely one to work. We have never "played" well together but not the topic for this forum.

Mother just purchased a Morgan from NC Mint for my dad. We have agreed to take it somewhere to be assessed. I sincerely doubt it is worth the $80 they spent but we will see.

I don't have a problem with him investing in coins, I just think he's not being wise with money he doesn't have. He needs to spend more wisely and not with places who have fraud lawsuits against them.
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"If there's no changing his mind, you may have to consider taking over his credit cards so as to protect your mother"
*** Edited by Staff to add quote tags. Please use them in the future. Posts are very difficult to read without them.***

Unfortunately, he is on credit terms with PCS, Danbury Mint, and NC Mint. They just send him coins and he writes checks if he likes them.
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Any way to steer him towards a reputable local coin shop? They will still make a profit off of him but it will be much less than what the TV salespeople are making off him. It might be possible to find some of these 'products' he has been buying from these sellers and compare them to completed ebay auctions and show him the results.
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to the Community!

I moved your welcome post to the appropriate forum for the proper attention.
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I'll be honest, I cringed a bit when I saw "Littleton Coin Co". Completely real merchandise, but criminally overpriced and gimmicky. Companies like that are designed to exploit beginner numismatists.

In fact, to show you how ridiculously overpriced these companies are, I'll pull out a Littleton catalog I have laying around, and compare the prices to their actual book value. The book values I'm using are from the Red Book, arguably the most trusted value resource in the hobby. Here are a few comparisons:

1916-D Mercury dime in AG-3: Littleton prices it at $1400, Red Book has it at $1000 at G-4, which is a higher grade, so a realistic price for an AG-3 example is more like $500 to $750.

Set including an 1878 and an 1878-S Morgan dollar that doesn't meet industry grading standards, which actually means they're damaged. It costs $156, and worth little over $50.

A 1945 Mercury dime in MS-65 is priced at $55, book value is $28.

Here's a good one, a set of 5 circulated, Walking Liberty half dollars from the 1940s priced at $160. That would barely carry a premium over melt, so worth about $35. That's a liberal estimate too. Disgusting.

I am glad however, that your dad has interest in this great hobby. What I would do is find a coin shop in your area, the prices will usually be more realistic and he'll have the enjoyment of dealing with people, which is more fun than online shopping or catalogs.

As for "doing this for your future", remember that coins aren't the greatest investment. The market is usually steady, but values increase very slowly, with the exception of multi-million dollar ultra-rare pieces.

Good luck with your father, hopefully everything goes well. Just so you know, coin collecting is an excellent parent/child activity!
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 Posted 12/22/2014  5:39 pm  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add SsuperDdave to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
Show him this thread, and point this out to him:

There is no doubt, just seeing the sources you mentioned, that your father is out thousands of unrecoverable dollars for these coins. Those vendors are widely known in numismatics for at best overcharging and at worst criminally deceiving their customers as to rarity and value. You won't see any of them recommended by the experts here.

You won't live long enough for prices to catch up, even if you inherit. Is that clear enough for him?
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Quote:
Show him this thread, and point this out to him:

Simple and direct.
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You won't live long enough for prices to catch up, even if you inherit.

Very well said.
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Here's my Two Cents; I would take him to a local coin show, just say it could be fun for both of you to spend time together checking out the coins. You could even take something that you're pretty sure he overpaid for and have it appraised by some dealers there. If he really likes collecting coins, he should love a small coin show. And he may be surprised at the prices. You can Google "local coin shows" and your area ones will show up (I just tried it and was surprised to find so many).

Maybe suggest buying some books on the subject (there are actually lots of them on the subject of investing in coins).

I had a father-in-law that was sort of the same (not to the same degree), and the last thing he wanted to hear was that he was overpaying for something. It almost made it worse.

Good luck, and .
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My biggest concern is that your father has no actual interest in coins at all and is just 'investing'.

If that's the case I'm sure there are plenty of people here who could explain how many hours they invested in learning before they began investing their money.
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I would say, "Beautiful coins dad." What he does is none of my business. My 82 yo dad is dropping a small fortune into his 40' sailboat, on top of his reverse mortgage. It's his money and his life. I encourage him to continue doing what makes him happy.
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I can't quote yet so please excuse the format:

"It's his money and his life."

as I said in my OP, it is not his money. He his 66, already drawing social security, but getting only 3 figures a month. He is spending beyond his means, relying on mothers retirement, by thinking he's doing a good thing by investing in coins sold by these charlatans. I have no problem with his investing, said it in my OP, I just wish he'd do it more wisely.

I have printed out all the lawsuits against these companies over the fake coins they sell but he rationalizes it's ok because he is buying real coins. He still doesn't understand they are ripping him off by over charging.
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