Welcome to the forum Commoncentz. I agree with the e-mail to the seller approach. It is nothing personal that your bids were cancelled. It is who you are as far as an eBayer. You are just someone with an account that has just registered and has no feedback. As has been mentioned you represent the scammer/non-paying bidder; guilty until proven innocent. Spend a few bucks and get some feedback. It will show that you have good intentions.
I was selling a Nintendo Wii after Thanksgiving. These were HOT and there was no shortage of buyers. There was also no shortage of scammers trying to get one and take the seller for a ride. I explicitly stated in my auction that bids from buyers with less than 10 feedback would be cancelled. I wanted a smooth transaction and wanted to do it quickly for Christmas delivery. Wouldn't you know that a brand new eBayer sniped the Wii at the very last second. I got the sale price I wanted but I wondered at what cost. Needless to say, the buyer did not pay until the next day, tried to change their address after paying with a confirmed address, the package was forwarded back to the main Post Office before being sent back to the same Post Office (the person moved within the same city) and did not respond to my e-mails requesting confirmation that they received it. I had delivery confirmation but I wanted to be sure that everything arrived o.k. They took a really long time to leave feedback and I was afraid that my unwillingness to change their address would result in a neg. I held my breath through the whole process.
This is just an example of the potential drama that can be caused by an unestablished buyer. I think there are plenty of new buyers that have nothing but the best intentions but how do you determine who is who? You will find some great deals on
ebay, just give it a little time.
Sorry for the very long post, I hope it helps a little.
Thanks,
Jim