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Pillar of the Community
United States
751 Posts |
Hey, all I've had two problems with sellers and their shipping charges since I've been on ebay this past month. I thought I'd share the stories and get your thoughts since I'm still relatively new. First story: I find a coin that I want, even though s&h is really dear ($5.50 for a single coin). Then I notice that additional purchases are $2 s&h and I figure I have a bidding edge on others: I can bid knowing I have to add *only* $2, while those I'm competing with have to add $5.50 to their bottom line. I contact the seller and ask how long I have to complete purchases for a combined shipping discount, he says "take as long as you want." Two days later I win another coin, and sure enough along comes an invoice for $7.50 combined shipping. So far, so good. That same day, I buy a third coin. Note that the auction doesn't say "$2 for a second coin", it says "$2 per additional coin". I get a new invoice with $5.50 s&h. I request a total, with a nice little message telling him I'm done shopping and asking for combined invoice with combined s&h. No response. I wait a couple of days and do it again. No response. Then I send a little note through ebay and copy his email address. Say that I'd like to pay for my $10.47 in coins and my $9.50 in shipping (*gulp*), but I couldn't modify his invoice--he had to do it. There is no way I'm going to pay $13 in s&h for three coins. I feel pretty stupid paying $9.50. Now I feel more stupid sending emails, practicly begging to send him $9.50 for 63 cents worth of postage and a bubble envelope. Anyway, the purchases were three weeks ago. My last message was two weeks ago. I never heard from him. My position is that I don't want the coins any longer and I'm not paying. I'm not going to send him any more requests to buy his over-priced coins. Should I communicate with ebay, telling them that the auction is void? The seller apparently hasn't filed a complaint about me. If he doesn't start any trouble, I don't want to either. Since ebay has my account info (credit card and checking) can they force me to complete a transaction? How can I remove this transaction from my account so ebay doesn't continue to remind me about it? Thanks.
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Pillar of the Community
 United States
751 Posts |
Second story: I buy a common, circulated Barber dime for $1.25, $1 s&h. The seller is new to ebay or has a new ID, because he's got zero feedback. After the auction, I get an invoice from him for 1.25 plus $5.05 s&h! So I request a total, adding a note that he has made a mistake because the auction clearly stated $1 s&h. No insurance or other ridiculous hidden charges either. I get a new invoice from him, this time with $4.05 shipping. I figure maybe he doesn't understand English and thought I was asking him to reduce shipping by a dollar. A couple days later, I get a third invoice--this time with $2 shipping. By now, it's clear to me that he wasn't happy with the result of the auction and he's trying to negotiate a higher price with me. I decide to blow him off--life is too short, and I'm still irritated from story one. Then I get a message from him telling me that he has sent me the third invoice, prompting me to act on it. I sent him this response: "I don't know why you are playing games with the invoices. Your auction stated a $1 shipping and now you've walked the price down from $4.05 to $3.05 to $2. Please stop. Relist the item. I don't trust you. "I haven't contacted ebay about your behavior, but if you continue I will." [edit: in reviewing the invoices, the actual values were $5.05...$4.05...$2, not what I wrote previously (and not what I wrote in my correspondence with the seller). Usually one inflates values as time goes by, I deflated] Same questions apply as above: * Do you find fault with my behavior? * Is there anything I can do to get ebay to whipe these auctions? * Is there any way I can be forced to pay? * Is there anything else I should do to cover myself? * Is it my bad luck, or are there plenty of people like this around? Thanks.
Edited by texasmick 06/07/2006 1:46 pm
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Pillar of the Community
United States
5362 Posts |
Texasmick, the stories are both hard to interpret because most sellers don't act this way at all in my experience. But, that said, I rarely bid with brand new sellers and don't like unreasonable shipping fees. So I would probably not have bid on either of these auctions. The problem you face is that ebay considers a bid a "contract". So you need to establish with them a breach of the contract by the seller. You also face two negatives for not paying for the items. Even if you were to pay these guys now and you pay with no insurance - you might get nothing for your money. On suspect sellers (which you seem to have proven here) you need to have some kind of insurance or you will definitely chalk them up to experience.
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Pillar of the Community
 United States
751 Posts |
Thanks for you response, Bob. >> I rarely bid with brand new sellers The next time I sell I on ebay, it will be my first time. So I feel kind of funny boycotting people in my own position. That said, dealing with established sellers with long resumes has got to be safer. >> and don't like unreasonable shipping fees. We had another thread on unreasonable shipping fees. It got cut off kind of abruptly by one of the moderators. That conversation, along with this experience has definitely helped to steer me clear of exorbitant fees. But how much is too much? Certainly $5.50 is too much for a coin. But is $3.99? $3? Where's the line? >> The problem you face is that ebay considers a bid a "contract". So you >> need to establish with them a breach of the contract by the seller. Yeah, that gives me a little pause. That niggling feeling is probably why I started this thread in the first place. Since the invoices didn't correspond with the written terms of the auction, I'm certain that I'm in the right. But sometimes being right isn't enough. You can always be dragged into small claims court and most people will pay to avoid the aggrevation. But since I haven't received any goods or services, I'm not terribly afraid of the courts. What I am afraid of is that ebay has access to my bank account through pay pal. Has anyone heard of them removing money from a checking account (or charging a credit card account) to settle a non-paying auction? >> You also face two negatives for not paying for the items. I'm not concerned with that in the least. I have 74 positives right now. I can deal with a 97%. How many sellers will look twice at my feedback? How many bids will be cancelled on this account? On the other hand, ebay could banish me. I might be chagrined, but my wife would be ecstatic. >> Even if you were to pay these guys now and you pay with no >> insurance - you might get nothing for your money. Very good point. I have considered that. What insurance (or assurance) could I possibly have that they will deliver? I could *buy* insurance from *them*. As a consequence, I have no intention of sending them money and trusting that they send the coins. They are both incompetent or corrupt--either way, I'm not completing the transaction. I appreciate the time you took to write and share your thoughts. Thanks. Mick
Edited by texasmick 06/05/2006 9:42 pm
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Pillar of the Community
United States
4870 Posts |
I'm just tired of the unfortunate acts by both buyers and sellers.
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Bedrock of the Community
United States
14454 Posts |
I sell sometimes and I always ship stuff priority mnail 2-3 days and I charge 5.00 shipping which I always add the confirmation which costs me 5.40 to ship. I have often wondered how others ship their items so cheaply when they say they use priority. I do usually use a box to ship items just because the envelopes are easyly tampered with (atleast in my experience) and I would rather take a hit in the wallet for extra shipping costs than the buyer having to take a hit because I used the envelope that was ripped apart and the coin gone. If someone would tell me how they ship their coins out I would appreciate it because I have often wondered
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Valued Member
United States
95 Posts |
I sell a lot of collectible cards on ebay, and I charge $.50 shipping for most auctions. I'd assume this should be similar for coins. To ship a coin without insurance you will need: $.39 cent stamp - 39 cents plastic flip taped shut - maybe $.15 ? cheaper if you buy in bulk? 1 envelope - if you buy in bulk, maybe a couple cents ... I can see maybe charging a buck to cover all that, but some of these $7.50 charges for shipping on common coins? gimme a break. Why stick the buyer with $5.00 for priority mail when you can ship first-class for around fifty cents?
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Bedrock of the Community
United States
14454 Posts |
Well I sure as heck wouldnt want anyone sticking my coin in a regular envelope that I paid for, if it was a freeby then thats different but if I liked it enough to pay for it I want it in the best packaging possible and shipped with a quick service if possible. I have had first class mail take two weeks to come from California to NC or vica versa and I just dont think that is a timely matter to do business. I have never had a problem with any coin I have ever shipped and everyone seems more than happy because I did package it the way it was so unless someone has a better explanation except "stick it in a envelope with a 39 cent stamp" I guess I will stick to the way I have been doing it for the past year or so
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Valued Member
United States
383 Posts |
I charge $5 for first class delivery and that includes insurance and delivery confirmation. On average that is what it cost to send. Not including the cost of the bubble bag and bubble mailer. I should add this is for graded coins.
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Bedrock of the Community
United States
14454 Posts |
mine is for graded coins as well, I dont really have any raw coins that I sell at all just graded coins that I have upgraded
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Valued Member
United States
95 Posts |
Bryan, when you're paying $100+ for a graded coin, paying $5 for a nicely packaged coin in a padded envelope is great, but when I'm buying a coin that I payed maybe a buck or so for, I find it a bit of overkill to pay so much for shipping and handling.
I've had very very good luck (i guess) with my first-class shippings. You can actually ship a large padded envelope for $.54 anywhere in the continental US. You could even put a slabbed coin into a large padded envelope, and still be well under the weight-limit for a large-size firstclass shipment.
I don't mean to sound argumentative, I'm just saying that there are cheaper alternatives that are good options as well.
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Pillar of the Community
 United States
751 Posts |
All,
I asked the thread where the dividing line was between reasonable and unreasonable s&h charges.
My take on your responses is that there is disagreement about fees in the $4-5 range. I think this is primarily due to differences between raw and slabbed coins.
I agree with the sentiment that $5 s&h for safe and fast shipping is not unreasonable for a slabbed coin for which one pays $25-$100. On the other hand, it seems overkill for a raw coin valued under $5. If it was not obvious from my descriptions, all the coins I have bought fall in the latter category.
I should add that I have won close to 150 auctions for raw coins. Frequently they come neatly and securely wrapped within a bubble envelope. Sometimes this is mailed with some premium service such as insurance or delivery confirmation. Although this may seem overkill compared to the value of the coin(s), at least I'm getting what I pay for with s&h and it coveys a big positive about the seller's conscientiousness and professionalism.
At the other end of the spectrum, there have been many occasions where I have spent good money (in the case of some halves I received last night, $5.50) on shipping only to have the coins arrive in a plain white envelope with no special packaging and with less than $1 postage attached.
Peace
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Pillar of the Community
 United States
751 Posts |
I thought I'd give y'all an update on this situation: quote: Originally posted by texasmick
Second story: I buy a common, circulated Barber dime for $1.25, $1 s&h.... After the auction, I get an invoice from him for 1.25 plus $4.05 s&h!
Yesterday the seller initiated a non-payment complaint against me. I responeded with a description of what the seller did wrong. Since I had warned him that I would retaliate if he filed a complaint, I follwed through. I filed a complaint with ebay's Security & Resolution Center: seller asked for additional fees after the auction ended. After having read that if the dispute goes against me I would lose my feedback privilege, I went ahead and left negative feedback. This morning, I received a message that the seller had withdrawn his complaint, saying that we had agreed to complete the transaction. There may yet be fallout to my complaint and the negative I left, but for the time being, it seems the seller finally figured out he was not going to get his fees back. Peace
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Valued Member
United States
95 Posts |
ugh ... that sounds like a real mess. It's a shame that things like this can't be worked out between the two parties as it's in both of their best interest to do so. Sounds like you did all of the right things though.
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Rest in Peace
United States
2684 Posts |
TM, I'm late getting into this discussion (a personal crisis came up), but for the relatively small amounts of money about which you are discussing, you are risking a much higher loss of reputation and record with ebay and potential future buyers or sellers as a Non-Paying Bidder and with negative feedbacks. I think I would have handled your situation a little differently. Emails to the other party are the first step, as you did, but if no response within a reasonable time period, I would have then phoned the seller (using ebay's contact procedures) to discuss the matter with him/her. If s/he kept lowering the shipping, but just stopped at a certain point and further negotiations were at an apparent standstill, I would have just sent him/her the money and chalked it off as a lesson learned. This would have precluded the NPB on your ebay record. If you STILL had not received the coin(s), you would then been able to take action against him/her as a non-delivery seller. There's a lot of twists and scenarios in this situation, but the idea is to keep yourself clean at your end. Regarding shipping, ebay's Terms of Service require that no profit be made from shipment and handling of an item. As a coin seller, I charge no more than what it costs me to safely package and ship a coin with reasonable assurance that the coin will not be damaged nor lost enroute and some sort of verification that the buyer has actually received the coin. If the coin DOES become lost enroute, then I have at least included some provision for tracking down its loss. My basic shipping and packaging costs are: First Class postage (usually 63 to 83 cents for two or three ounces); bubble envelope ( Walmart 45 to 65 cents, sometimes more, sometimes, less); a Safe-T-Mailer (31 cents; I buy them by the hundred http://www.safetmailer.com/ ); and Delivery Confirmation 60 cents. Insurance is mandatory for anything over $50 value and is extra above shipping and packaging. Total is up to $2.39, but I usually charge a flat rate of $2.25 for a slabbed coin (range $1.65 to $2.75 depending upon the item, especially if it's a Scout or other item instead of a coin). My s/h rates will be going up slightly this fall when I get back to eBaying since I MAY add Certificate of Mailing (95 cents) and/or Return Receipt ($1.85 up) or, more likely Signature Confirmation ($1.90); it will depend upon the value of the coin or other item. I will REDUCE my costs significantly by printing my own USPS shipping labels, something I started doing only this past spring; DC is only 14 cents instead of 65 cents when I print my own labels. I do NOT see myself shipping coins via Priority Mail since most of my First Class shipments arrive in about the same two to three days as would Priority Mail. Delivery times vary too much from location to location (i.e., much variation in the efficiency of USPS Central Sorting Facilities and even within a specific Post Office) and shipping distance to spend the extra money for a service which isn't guaranteed to be faster than First Class mail.
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Pillar of the Community
 United States
751 Posts |
Fred, thank you for your perspective. This is entirely what I had hoped for in starting this thread--different ideas about how to handle such a situation. I freely admit that I sometimes get caught up in the principle and neglect to do a cost benefit analysis. Ok, it happens a lot ;) The amounts of money are small and most preferred methods of handling a situation don't get nearly this messy. But I must say a few words on protecting one's ebay reputation. To my mind, people take this way too far, to the point of devaluing the process to absurdity. No one wants negative, or even neutral, feedback. As a result, all kinds of bad actors get their 100% positive (or nearly so) simply because no one wants to be retaliated against. The system is broken. My personal decision was to be honest and principled, even if that makes me unpopular. The Internet is a Wild West and ebay has decided it doesn't want to be the sheriff. Instead, it sells the whiskey and the coffins and keeps the streets clean for the gunfights. So I've decided to call people out for grossly misdescribed and overgraded items. Most people deal with this quietly. But what good does that do the next guy? It's totally self-serving. How does it help society as a whole if you make a private arrangement with a serial abuser to compensate you, while leaving the preditor with a perfect reputation to go on and prey on the next ten "fish"? There are a hundred thousand coins out there at any given time. I'm not going to waste my time playing phone tag with a few bad apples. JMHO, Mick
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