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 Posted 10/10/2007  8:58 pm Show Profile   Bookmark this topic Add Bonedigger to your friends list Get a Link to this Message Number of Subscribers
I posted this on another forum earlier qnd wanted to share it with you guys too...
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When I was a boy growing up in rural east Texas the days could get pretty boring at times and collecting coins was one of the simple enjoyments which was available to my brother and I. Many evenings you'd find my little brother and I looking thru the change my oldman brought home from his hardware store.

In the springtime of 1972 an out of town family (The Mills) bought a little place (house and 10 acres) just up the road and they'd would come in to visit/live there during the weekends. Chuckle, the locals called them 'the weekenders' because come Sunday afternoon they would pack-up and head back to Houston. They were very nice likable folks and I guess they planned to retire there in a couple of years after Mr. Mills retired from the Southern Pacific Railroad where he'd worked for many years.

Anyway, they had a son, Gary, he was 11 years old exactly splitting the age difference between my little brother and I. It only took a few weekends and a month or two during the summer before we had a regular trail thru the woods and their hay pasture seperating our two houses. Fast friends for life it had turned into, and to top it off Gary liked to collect coins too. His Buffalo nickel collection was pretty good for an 11 year old and he had some loose silver quarters too. However, he always loved my two Morgan dollars an 1887-O and a uncirculated 1878-S. These two coins my dad had given me a few years before and they were the center pieces of my little collection. Heck, we even had a coin collecting/whatever club. We called it "The Armadillo Club" and our hideout was way down in the woods at some sandstone cliffs the indians had called Red Hollow.

His folks and ours really enjoyed each others company and there were many many BBQs on Saturday afternoons. Unfortunately, the weekends just flew by and the weekdays took forever knowing that Gary and his family would be arriving on Friday evenings.

Time just flew by minute-by-minute... In the summer of 1973 my little brother and I went over to my Uncle Johnny's in Big Sandy, Tx for two weeks while our folks went down to Monterey Mexico on an anniversary vacation. It quickly turned out to be one of the worst 'vacations?' ever we thought. That man (my uncle) had us picking and shelling purple hull peas until my fingers bled. But then, out of the blue he took us cat-fishing for two days on the Nechus River and that made up for all the pea picking.

When we got back home I sensed something was the matter, the first thing my dad did was to sit us down on the couch. Man. I'll tell you I thought we were in serious trouble (we always were...) for some reason again. It was then we were told that Gary had bone cancer and had to have his arm amputated, also that he'd lost all of his hair due to the chemo-therapy he was receiving. All of this had happened in such a short time. Sure enough that next weekend we rode our bikes thru the woods to Gary's house. His mom was very concerned that we'd disturb him while he was resting but finally let us in see him. Sure enough Gary was in bad shape. That was the last time I would ever see him alive...

Two months later there were six young boys who were selected to be the pallbearers at Gary's funeral. My little brother and I were part of the sad procession. It was a rainey humid afternoon in Centerville at the funeral home. He (Gary) was wearing his Houston Astro baseball cap, blue jeans, tennis shoes, and a long-sleeve shirt with the sleeve pinned up. It was then I slipped a beautiful 1878 Morgan dollar into his coffin. I don't think anyone saw me do it. If they did nobody stopped me...

Take Care
Ben
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 Posted 10/10/2007  9:54 pm  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add gnome to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
Hard to say anything, a touching story.
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 Posted 10/10/2007  10:08 pm  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add Gold Certificates to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
Its sad to hear something like that, but at the same time it was a very touching story. It was really meaningful when you gave him the Morgan dollar. But it's always tough going through a loss.
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 Posted 10/10/2007  10:45 pm  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add humpybong to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply

Ben, that was a great story and I thank you for sharing it with us.

It brought a tear to my eyes.
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 Posted 10/10/2007  11:11 pm  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add okie-colin to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
Holy cow Ben that is a sad, but great story. You should be a writer. You also sound like a great guy. Anyone that has you for a friend is fortunate indeed.
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 Posted 10/10/2007  11:50 pm  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add Amazon99 to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
quote:
Hard to say anything, a touching story.


Thank you for sharing this personal story with us.
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 Posted 10/11/2007  04:33 am  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add Ken_3567 to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
Wow, sad but touching story. That fact you are sharing something so personal makes me feel fortunate for being here.

thank you
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10/11/2007 04:36 am
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 Posted 10/11/2007  08:16 am  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add jcook54 to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
Thanks for sharing.
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 Posted 10/11/2007  09:05 am  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add Bonedigger to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
Thanks for all the wonderful comments, they do mean a lot. Remember, many times the actual prize is not the treasure, but the hunt... The memories of Gary shall remain with me until the day I die. After that, who knows...

Ben
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 Posted 10/11/2007  10:09 am  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add Topher to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
Thanks for the story Ben. It puts things back into perspective for a moment.
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 Posted 10/11/2007  10:30 am  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add Jim1953 to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
Thank you for being you, Ben. True friends are hard to find and Gary sure had one in you. I know when you will see him again, because I believe.
Jim
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 Posted 10/11/2007  10:23 pm  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add Ozland to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
Bonedigger, your story is so mournful and poignant. It really shows in many ways how fleeting our lives really are.
Like your friend I was eleven when I saw my first Morgan dollar and I have been hooked ever since. How many of us realize that when we collect a coin we are capturing history if only briefly? Capturing a moment in time.
Sometimes when it all goes crazy and the thrill is gone, when the days get rain and the night gets long sometimes we stare at the ceiling wondering why and there are no easy answers. Crazy as it is sounds sometimes and for no other reason it's just the way it is. And yet you have managed and kept alive something very special. You have the boyhood memory of Gary and the many bonds of friendship that were forged by a mutual love and wonder of coins. Bonds of friendship forged stronger than steel that still remain.
We all grow up, but a little of the wonder of it all remains in us all. At least I would like to think that it does. Your story reinforces that belief.
All these years later, I still see the Morgan dollars as I always have, as objects of beauty, of a time long gone by and I still like to capture history.
Time marches on and with it, like an eraser we see things disappearing before our very eyes never quite understanding or fully comprehending at the time that things will never be quite the same again.
Thank you for sharing your story.
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 Posted 10/12/2007  08:51 am  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add Bonedigger to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
Thank you all for the kind comments. One of the neat things about technology today is GOOGLE.Earth. I give you, our farm (X) in Texas, Red Hollow (lake), thumbtack and circled, and Gary's (Y) weekend house. His mom is still living, and yes, living there. Now, it's grown up a lot since 1973 but you can still see it's a RURAL area with lots of trees, LOL...

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 Posted 10/12/2007  8:40 pm  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add EgCollector to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
Its a very sad story, thanks for sharing
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 Posted 10/13/2007  11:39 am  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add t360 to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
Sad outcome and also a beautiful friendship. Thanks for sharing it!
Rest in Peace
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 Posted 10/13/2007  10:12 pm  Show Profile   Bookmark this reply Add Parklane64 to your friends list Get a Link to this Reply
Do you ever visit his mother? She might like to read this. Thanks.

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