This saga is killing me and I wish I had the best advice and the most experience to say what, exactly, is the right thing to do.
(It's unusual for me to have any emotions in cyberspace...but I got p-o'd reading about that "dealer.")
If you spend the next month identifying the key, semi-key, and (at least) your varieties in each denomination and if you also do some research on all the other coins (in general) you should be able to begin to determine some value for the entire collection.
I'm going to be succinct here: without this research, you're going to take a bath. However, if you dont do the research, you wont know you took a bath. With half the research, you'll probably always wonder, "what if..."
Part of my collection includes (easily) 2000 coins in a foot locker in various denomination boxes that I would like to pare way down (through sales or by upgrading my primary collection) -- the volume of it overwhelms me sometimes when I look down from my desk and microscope and consider how much time, information, memory, research it takes and will continue to take to keep up with it (e.g., what do I do with 30 1929
Buffalo nickels in various grades?) and assimilate it into my primary collection and memory bank (my brain)...including all the duplicate varieties and error coins I have.
Some days I think, "(expletive deleted) it...put a general description of the lot on
ebay with some ridiculous price, like $5,000." Then I realize that, a general description wont get me anywhere or anything...the description necessary to sell a 2000-coin lot for $5,000 would require I do research and inventory anyway.
ebay's not a bad choice amongst and along with some others, depending on how you structure the sale of your collections or individual coins.
Personally, if you were me and wanted to unload the collection, you might consider trusting another collector (here on CCF) to sell them for you for a commission if he/she had the time, willingness, and resources.
Also, kinda like in 12-Step programs...carefully choose one primary mentor with the idea that, while many of us can be helpful, at some point, too much information (even if it's good) is too much information....not to mention we all have differing opinions. This mentor may be savvy enough to guide you in all denominations or he/she may be savvy enough to help you organize your denominational approach.
Anything's gotta be better than this (what they call in education) "bird-walking" thread.
I'm done with my semi-rant. No, wait...I want to rant about that dealer again.
Nah.
:P
Jim