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Pillar of the Community
United States
1150 Posts |
Before work last week I took a few minutes to stop by my local coin shop here in Silverdale, Washington where the owner, Mike, has sold me coins for years now. I was really excited to see him as lately I haven't been able to visit as much as I have in the past with my new job and schedule. When I walked into the shop looking for Mike his partner, Dick (the stamp guy) told me to have a seat. I assumed maybe Mike was sick since he's up there in years and tends to fall ill rather frequently. However, it was much worse. They found him at his home dead last Tuesday after not showing up at the shop.
Now, when I first met Mike, I didn't really like him. He can come across as really rude, short and generally uninterested. The more I visited the shop the more I realized that his tough exterior was due to his upbringing. I can't fault a guy for that.
When the economy turned south in '08 I was laid-off from my job and I suddenly found that outside of looking for work I had a lot of free time. I spent most of my time at Mikes. I would be there every day, most of the time for hours and hours on end. I even brought my daughter in and Mike would spoil her with candy, free coins (she's not even two, but she can say 'coins') and generally let her terrorize his shop and go behind his counter to search through his inventory.
I've bought most of the coins I own from Mike. I went to my first coin shows because Mike was there, and other dealers gave me great deals because I was "a friend of Mike's."
I consider Mike a good friend. He taught me a great deal, was always kind to my family and always ate every burnt chocolate chip cookie my wife made for him.
It is going take some time before I can open my safe again and look at my coins.
Rest in Peace, Mike O'Hara.
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Pillar of the Community
Canada
1554 Posts |
 Hello Mitch, I'm sorry for your loss; please accept my sincere condolences. Life is not easy at the best of times, but when you lose a dear friend suddenly it makes it that much harder. If Mike could speak to you right now, He would tell you to continue collecting with all your heart and enjoy the beautiful coins you bought from him! Glenn 
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Pillar of the Community
United States
931 Posts |
Very sorry. Sometimes those gruff people turn out to be really cool people. At least when you go through your collection you have something to remember Mike by.
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Valued Member
United States
458 Posts |
I am sorry for your loss, but grateful that you were able to meet and enjoy being a friend of a great man.
Keep collecting and going to those shows for Mike!
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Moderator
 United States
14463 Posts |
sorry for your loss. Glad you found someone to trust with your coin purchases. EDIT: Off topic: I usually don't go the doctor unless I need something, and I got a letter from the office of my PCP doctor the other day, that he has passed away.  I know life is finite, it just stuck me as an odd letter.
Edited by Fuzzy317 08/02/2011 2:47 pm
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Moderator
 United States
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I read the title hoping it was figurative, like he had become a bullion dealer or something. I am saddened by your loss. Keep reliving those memories and he will never be truly gone.
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Pillar of the Community
 United States
1150 Posts |
I appreciate your responses. I wasn't really sure what I wanted to post, but I knew I wanted to post something here and get it off my chest.
Thank you all for your sympathy.
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Pillar of the Community
Mexico
1304 Posts |
Oh man, that hurts!...Well, I hope you your personal beliefs allow you think "At least he doesn't have to worry any more."
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Pillar of the Community
United States
830 Posts |
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Valued Member
United States
406 Posts |
Sorry for your loss. RIP and God bless.
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Pillar of the Community
United States
759 Posts |
I'm very sorry. I think I've actually been in that shop.
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Valued Member
United States
361 Posts |
My sincere condolences. I have known a few dealers over the years who could come across very "rough" at first. Kind of like how you described Mike. Once you got to know these guys you realized they had hearts of gold. Sounds like Mike had a gold heart as well. He can live on in your heart and thoughts when you look at the coins you got from him.
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Moderator
 United States
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That's a wonderful testimonial, and proof that Mike reached the greatest goal in life, to be remembered for his goodness. Life ain't about what you have when you die; it's about what you leave behind and the only truly priceless thing you can leave are memories.
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Bedrock of the Community
United States
10038 Posts |
Sorry for your loss of a friend. Keep his memory alive by attending those shows and reminding your daughter of the good times she had with Mike also. RIP and may God bless
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Bedrock of the Community
United States
20753 Posts |
I too say sorry for your loss. But try to remember that he inspired you in coin collecting so you should continue in memmory of him.
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Bedrock of the Community
Australia
21788 Posts |
I have been able to build the same level of rapport with a coin dealer I have known for over 35 years. As customers, both Mitch and I are very fortunate.
About 30 years ago, I sold a Praetorian camp Claudius aureus to him. It has remained in his personal collection ever since.
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